Make way for the over-spender! These big rollers cart out of unending-long cars,
with their fingers dripping with expensive rings and their clothes replete with a crass sense of style. While these people make a display of their wealth, one needs to ascertain if this is the best way to attract women.
The Big Spender
So the big spender swaggers across the room with a drink in hand, and a flurry of women purring in affection around him. Does this sound like the perfect scenario to you? Fortunately or unfortunately, this image pleases no one. Studies conducted have shown that women tend to see show-offs in a negative way. Not only does it come off as a crass and conceited effort, but it also displays low esteem. Throwing money around is seen as a superficial manifestation of one’s lack of confidence. Just because you feel you don’t have skills to impress women, doesn’t mean that you should resort to emptying your pockets to feel attractive.
Many men nurture the notion that when it comes to dating, women only appreciate the rich and famous. Well, undoubtedly, wealth tends to brighten prospects, but at the end of the day, a woman appreciates a man beyond simply his means. If you really want to attract women, you should focus on your charms, looks and your personality. There’s nothing more attractive than a man who can hold a sensible conversation. While some women might like the idea of being pampered, one can rest assured that the entire womankind need not be slandered for the crimes of some.
Women appreciate niceties and trinkets, but do not expect you to shower them with the same, all the time. A gift should be a memorabilia of the time well-spent instead of a material proclamation of emotion. Women most definitely want to avoid knowing about your bank balance. Instead, impress them with your worldly knowledge. Regale women with tales of how well-travelled or well-read you are. Women might appear to be complicated beings, but are amply satiated with the smallest of gestures.
So, the next time you go out on a date, be sensible about your economic state. Showering the girl with presents, irrespective of her needs, is a nice gesture, but it shouldn’t come at the cost of burning a crater through your pocket. Resort to simple pleasures like a movie date, or a coffee at some indie coffee-house. Be a superb conversationalist and you shall find the way to her heart.
Money, at the end of the day, can only satisfy your exemplary materialistic desires, but when it comes to the softer play of emotions, it cannot serve its purpose at all.