Marriage is an institution where two people become one and not to forget that there is a union of two families too. To save a marriage from other external factors is sometimes in the hands of the woman. Yes, men too have their side to say, but here the topic is on how women must avoid certain factors in a married life to save their marriage from being ruined.
10. Be cheerful and happy even if you are cooking eggs inside
There are a lot of things that trouble a woman. It does not mean that your fears and anxieties should affect your marriage. Be calm and cheerful whenever you are with your family, even though you are troubled with some or the other problem. If it is not related to your marriage or your husband, you may share it with your husband for finding out a solution. But if it is related to your husband, then make sure you do not hurt his feelings. A perfect smile on your face is what your man expects all the time from you.
9. Never reveal your past secrets or never boast of your success to your man
Do you have small secrets inside you related to your first love or any kind of bad experiences of the past? Then think that it has nothing to do with your married life. Leave it out and stay off from thinking about it. AND… Never let your man know the details of your love before marriage. Never boast anything related to your present success to your husband. It might make him feel bad if he is not successful in career. Help him in taking the right decisions and never let him feel that you are boasting of your own success to him.
8. Never encourage your husband to have friendship with his friend’s wife or your best friend
You will never know who is going to spoil your married life. So make sure you do not open new paths towards him so that he may slip into new pits and ultimately you get hurt.
7. Never fall in love with another man if you want your husband for yourself
If you want to save your marriage, make a conscious effort to stay with your husband. Never allow yourself to fall for another man. It can cause a lot of troubles to your family life.
6. Always save money for future
Money is to spend. But when you do not have anything left during times of adversity, you will find yourself in deep trouble. It is a common practice among women to shop unnecessarily. Save each penny when you feel like spending it on anything unnecessary. You might never know when you very badly need a penny.
5. Handmade gifts to make him feel special
Never buy gifts for your husband. To make him special, opt for something that is handmade. Handmade gifts are a token of love and care. The time spent to make a gift shows clearly how you love your man very badly. This can create intimacy to the core.
4. Be good to his relatives
His relatives are yours when you get married to him. So be nice to them. This is yet another way to win his love and trust.
3. Always be a good mother
Looking after your children with care is secret method of letting your man know that you love him a lot. Men always tend to care a lot about their kids. So if you want to have a good hold on him, you need to be a good mother too.
2. Pamper him with home cooked food
Do you feel like making him happy all the time? Cook for him. Try new dishes to win his heart. Pampering him with exciting dishes can help in preserving love in your relationship.
1. Always make him feel he is your first choice
Make your husband feel that he is your first choice. It does not mean that you do not have any opinion in life. Yes, you do have your own opinions and decisions in life. But when you are married, you need to consider your partner too and never let him feel that he is not important to you.